this check may look weird, but in fact a similar check in the
old version of the singleton factory helped us spot a problem
with Clang, most likely but of the compiler or runtime system
Clang doesn't allow to declare a private nested class as friend.
This is unfortunate, but likely correct to the letter of the standard.
As a workaround, now we're creating the instances within a static
function of DependencyFactory -- in the end this improves readability
A second issue fixed with this changeset is the scope of the
marker function. Clang is right, this isn't ADL, thus an inline
friend definition is simply not visible outside the class.
