this pretty much resolves most of the uncertainities:
we now get a set of mutually dependent services, each of which
is aware of each other member's capabilities, but accesses those
only through this partner's API
Idea is to use the window list, which should hold any workspace window
ever created, and pick the first one marked as 'active' by GTK
(whatever that means)
This is a very pervasive change and basically turns the whole top-level
of the GTK-UI bottom-up. If this change turns out right, it would likely
solve #1048
WARNING: in parts not implemented, breaks UI